##***Sui Generis-PART 2***##

Hi buddies:)

Hope you got something about yourself after self-talk.Till now,we have seen the definition of uniqueness and the way to discover it and what's it about,exactly.Now,I'm going to share with you the secret of sustaining Uniqueness.The Key factors to sustain your individuality***;Confidence,Attitude,Perspective(CAP). you need to wear this cap if you want to lead a destined,peaceful life.You can show the world what you are.But,just think is it needed?Have ever god came in your dream and asked you to do this thing and not to do that thing?No.Its our wishes and goals that reflect in our dreams.Ok..I don't wanna scatter things.let's concentrate on Individuality.

FIRST:
           Before looking in to Confidence.let's see the different types of persons in the world.

0+++1   2+++++3      4+++++++++5                            ++6
Just imagine the above figure as a bridge.Three persons are walking over the bridge.The bridge is not a continuous one.There is some break-ups in the bridge.
1)First person reached the point 1.He is greatly disappointed by the break and he returned in the same way as he comes.
2)Second person reached the point 1.He analysed and calculated whether he is able to cross it.Then,he jumped and reached the point2.He started moving to the point 3.This time too,he analysed several factors and reached the point5.After that,he stopped and started thinking.He dropped the idea of reaching the point6 and started to hunt for some other ideas to reach the destined place.
3)Third person crossed the breaks and reached the point5.Without having any thought,he plunged and got injured.

so,now,can you able to drag something??
yes.we can sort the people by the way they behave.
Everyone in this world comes within these concentric circles.

------>>first person has mediocre self-esteem and self-assurance.This type of people always blame the situations.
------>>second person has  correct level of confidence.He is able to compare the situation and his potential.Betwixt,points 5 and 6,the break is so large.Here,the person is able to anticipate the consequences.So,he dropped the idea of reaching the point6.He has the presence of mind.

------>>Third person has over-confidence.He lost his steadiness.This Over-confidence will dig us and thwart our growth.so,beware of it."slow and steady wins the race.""self-confidence will make the mountain move".(Don't take this in the other way!)

All the three persons possess confidence.If not so,they wouldn't have reached the point0.
Only the confidence level makes the difference.We have to build the confidence in ourself.We should try to search for goodness even in the hell.For that,we have to build positive vibrations and thoughts(optimism) in and around ourselves.People of low self-confidence is better than people of negative confidence(pessimism).Because,the negative thoughts in oneself will soon end up in Pandora's box.

If some one shows you a rose plant,what will you look at?The rose or the thorn...?I think we have landed on the second topic...

SECOND:
         
     Attitude??What's it?It's the way of thinking or feeling about someone or something.(self-confident or hostile behaviour)
     -------->>(ATTITUDE REDEFINED FOR MODERN ERA)The way of behaving under the worst circumstances.The way of handling the problem.

If you behave smartly and solve the problem tactically then you will score the good attitude badge.If not,obviously,the bad one.

I am handling a vast topic now.so,I will give you a gist about this topic.If you wanna know more,post your queries at the comments section.Surely,I will reply you.

Here,I wanna share an anecdote which my teacher told.Ram and Victor are thick friends.Once,Ram was driving  his car through a thick forest.It was pouring heavily in the forest.Surprisingly,he met his friend Victor and two other persons standing by his side.The car can accomodate only 2 persons.Ram could see one of the persons bleeding.He could identify the other person as a doctor.He was in a confusion whether to help his friend or the other one.At that point of time,he just gave the car key to the doctor and asked him to take the injured to the hospital immediately.He held his friend's hand and started walking enjoying the rain.....

Got the attitude?still not,Develop it.You will.......Time is the powerful medicine that cures the hurts and wounds.Time is the wonderful changing tool which unlocks every conundrums.


THIRD:

 Perspective??The way of looking??The way of viewing objects??Yeah.I'm able to look everything clearly even in darkness and too without glasses.:-):-)Ok.Jokes apart.come soon.Don't go anywhere.

This topic is related to dovetailing the two things-confidence and attitude.

Just take a simple example.It's raining outside heavily.your mom restricted you to go out.so,you unlocked yourself in the cot and looking at the rain drops touching the window pane frequently.You are admiring the beauty of rain.Yeah,It's nice.Well done!but,have you ever thought of saving the rain water?Looking in to a thing deeply and bringing out a new thing(idea) from the hectic things is called perspective view.you may ask me is it not related to innovation?Yeah,you're true.Your perspective view only makes the platform of innovation but,a little essence of imagination is added to bring the product to the limelight.

So,I am going to end this post with utmost satisfaction of sharing certain things with you.Bye......